Hello dear readers, how are you, i hope you all are good, and i hope you are good too dear partner. So, what is the title, my love language in a relationship. Here i am going to tell you what is my gesture, and actions when i am in a relationship with someone. And maybe some gestures are not good for me and some actions and gestures are there which every boyfriend should have.
So let’s start with the topic, Why i am writing this. Yeah, because She thinks i have a fake personality. I have insecurity issues, which i agree i have, what next thing i have, I am immature. Okay, well if i am in a relationship, and if a she knows me very well, i don’t have to act fake and act like i am super mature. And if we talk about that my immaturity can lead breakup between us, then ok, i am working on myself. Second thing, I am emotionally intelligent. I will be emotionally available for you anytime and any kind of problem. Whenever i said that call me if you need to talk to me i will be there Infront of your eyes within an hour, I am serios with this statement i wasn’t faking it. If you tell me that i am into a problem or anything running in my mind, i am gonna help it with you and figure out together, because if you are in a problem, i will take all responsibility how to take you, not you, how to get us out from this problem. Did you gave me a try and gave me any kind of situation like that where you can check my Maturity??, You have a chance to test me, But you fight with these kinds of situations alone
You know what, in every fight, i apologies for my love that i don’t want to loose you, i forget about my self respect and everything i have, having different types of thoughts in my mind but can’t even say because i have a fear to not to hurt you again and again. So i apologies every time and maybe you take your ego on the next level, then you starts counting my mistakes and you say you are immature you are this you are that. Maybe this affects me sometimes and i also thought and I’ve got it set in my mind that i am really immature i am not not a good person.
I also have issues in relationship. I also have expectations, i also have manifestations in my mind, i also want king treatment. But i forget everything and just trying and think everyday that what kind of effort i should do today to make her smile. I did efforts, and i don’t even ask and want anything in return. yeah, i have just for a smile on her face in return. I know maybe you think that this is also a part of fake personality. That why someone else want a smile on my face, what would he get seeing me smile. i tell you what i got seeing you smile and laughing, i got butterfly, happiness, i feel relaxed, forget all my tention, peace of mind and many more.
Cheating is a wrong thing, i know it’s a choice, it’s not a mistake. there is a huge difference in saying i am having insecurity, and saying directly that i think you are cheating on me. I have honestly told my partner that i have this kind of problem, and i am genuinely ashamed of it and i will surely fix this ASAP. I have that kind of mindset that if i know that i am not good for you personally, and if things are right between us, I will still not marry you. This is my love language. What kind of patience i have, i can wait for whole life for someone. if my partner don’t want kids, i have no problem, if my partner don’t want to marry anyone in their life and want to live for their parents, i still have no problem, i also just want loyalty, love, care only.
Maybe i got so blind in love that not able to observe now that you are ignoring me these days or have you Pushed me away from your life. I have told you, if you got tired from me you want to kick me out from my life, directly say to me that stop irritating me and don’t be clingy to me. When you say this to me directly from the bottom of your heart, from that day onwards, I will stop irritating and i will personally never try to come back in your life again ever.
We have some plans, which we can fulfil together. Giving up on our partner is the last thing we can do, and the mistakes i have made can be improved. And we are litreally giving up too early on this relationship. Ignoring a person will not helps us in peace of our mind, well if it works for you then ok tell me directly that you want to push me from your life. it’s just one year we lived together and we have build and created a lots of dream together, and breaking up so early i think is not maturity for this relationship, as we are trying and giving efforts for this relationship to become more strong and working together to fulfil our dreams, don’t you think we should wait for a good time, every relationship has a bad time but if we stayed together in this bad time, that means we win.
let me just end the blog here, will be waiting for the day whenever you read this, wrote this on 10th of march 2025, I love you, and thank you dear audience for reading my blog